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February 21, 2007

Reginald

Filed under: The City

“How much longer until you get home?” I asked Jamaica. I had just gotten home from the office and was debating whether to do my usual treadmill routine, or wait for her arrival and eat dinner first.

“I’m about 45 minutes away, what do you want for dinner?”

“I don’t know. Would you rather just go out?”

It was the night before Valentine’s Day. We were not going to be together because Jamaica teaches on Wednesday nights, and she gets home really late.

“Sure, let’s eat out instead.”

“Great, then we can walk around a bit afterward and I don’t have to do the treadmill.”

We tried out a new place just a few blocks away. It was a simple menu; we ate light and conversed deeply. On our way back home, a lanky man approached us with a Styrofoam cup, jingling a few coins inside.

“Could you please help a brother out?”

We had several blocks before we reached home, so the three of us kept walking. I asked several questions to learn more about Reginald.

“I have aids, man. I have mother f***ing aids. God**** aids. I don’t want aids.”

“I’ve had aids for twelve years.”

“I don’t trust anyone around here. They don’t want to hear my story. No one wants to hear about a black man who has had gay relations.”

“I trusted the guy. He cared. He was my friend. He told me that if I loved him, I would let him screw me.”

“I didn’t know I would get aids. I’m dying of aids, man! Dying of f***ing aids!”

Reginald was really hyper. The faintness of alcohol on his breath was probably permanent. Reginald was sharp. He talked boldly and convincingly. His vocabulary was rich.

“My mom and I don’t have a very good relationship. She has kind of given up on me. She is moving to Connecticut. I don’t see her very often. For the most part, we’ve given up on each other. We used to have a really good relationship.”

We had stopped a block away from our loft. The three of us stood on the corner talking and listening. You could tell Reginald was really enjoying the intimacy. He wanted to talk more. I tried to ask different questions because the redundancy was getting a little boring.

“You’re such a pretty lady!”

“Don’t be hitting on my wife Mr. Reginald!”

“No, no, man, I wouldn’t do that.

We put our hands on Reginald’s shoulder, and said a prayer for his life.

“I rode the bus one time and a guy told me that whenever I am feeling down, to look up and say ‘thank you Jesus!’” In spite of the trite, it appeared this lesson had been applied often in Reginald’s life.

“I’m so glad to have run into you guys tonight. You made my evening. I’m going to remember this forever. I’ll remember your name, Jamaica.”

“Will you remember mine Reginald?”

“What is it again?”

“Brad.”

"Probably not.”


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Great post Brad!

Posted by: billy at February 21, 2007 4:17 PM

i have really been enjoying reading your posts brad, keep it up!

Posted by: luke at February 22, 2007 6:20 AM

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